Plutarch, Quaestiones Romanae, ed. William W. Goodwin, 65

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Question 65.

Why doth not a man lie at first with a bride in the light, but when it is dark?

Solution. Is it not for modesty’s sake, for at the first congress he looks upon her as a stranger to him? Or is it that he may be inured to go into his own wife with modesty? Or, as Solon hath written, Let the bride go into the bed-chamber gnawing a quince, that the first salutation be not harsh and ungrateful. So did the Roman lawgiver command that, if there should be any thing absurd and unpleasant in her body, she should hide it? Or was it intended to cast infamy upon the unlawful use of venery by causing that the lawful should have certain signs of modesty attending it?

Quaestiones Romanae. Plutarch. ed. William W. Goodwin. Boston. 1874.

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Roman Questions (English) (Plutarch. Plutarch's Morals, Vol. II. Goodwin, William W., editor; Chauncy, Isaac translator. Boston: Little, Brown, and Company; Cambridge: Press of John Wilson and Son, 1874.)

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Αἴτια Ῥωμαϊκά Perseus (Plutarch. Moralia, Vol. IV. Babbitt, Frank Cole, editor. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press; London: William Heinemann Ltd., 1936 (printing).) — 65 focus

[65] διὰ τί τῇ νύμφῃ τὸ πρῶτον οὐκ ἐντυγχάνει 279f μετὰ φωτὸς ὁ ἀνὴρ ἀλλὰ διὰ σκότους;

πότερον ὅτι αἰδεῖται πρὶν ἢ συνελθεῖν ἀλλοτρίαν νομίζων, ἢ καὶ πρὸς ἰδίαν προσιέναι μετʼ αἰδοῦς ἐθιζόμενος;

ἢ, καθάπερ ὁ Σόλων ἔγραψε μήλου κυδωνίου τὴν νύμφην ἐντραγοῦσαν εἰς τὸν θάλαμον βαδίζειν, ὅπως τὸ πρῶτον ἄσπασμα μὴ δυσχερὲς γένηται μηδʼ ἀχάριστον, οὕτως ὁ ¹ Ῥωμαῖος νομοθέτης, εἰ δή τι προσῆν ἄτοπον τῷ σώματι καὶ δυσχερές, ἔκρυψεν;

ἢ διαβολὴ τίς ἐστιν ἀφροδισίων παρανόμων τὸ γιγνόμενον, ὡς καὶ τοῖς νομίμοις ² αἰσχύνης τινὸς προσούσης;

Κεφαλαίων καταγραφή Ῥωμαϊκά Perseus (Plutarch. Plutarchi Chaeronensis Moralia, Vol IΙ. Vernardakēs, Grēgorios N., editor. Leipzig: Teubner, 1889.) — 65 focus

[65] διὰ τί τῇ νύμφῃ τὸ πρῶτον οὐκ ἐντυγχάνει 279f μετὰ φωτὸς ὁ ἀνὴρ ἀλλὰ διὰ σκότους; πότερον ὅτι αἰδεῖται πρὶν ἢ συνελθεῖν ἀλλοτρίαν νομίζων, ἢ καὶ 15 πρὸς ἰδίαν προσιέναι μετʼ αἰδοῦς ἐθιζόμενος; ἢ, καθάπερ ὁ Σόλων ἔγραψε μήλου κυδωνίου τὴν νύμφην ἐντραγοῦσαν εἰς τὸν θάλαμον βαδίζειν, ὅπως τὸ πρῶτον ἄσπασμα μὴ δυσχερὲς γένηται μηδʼ ἀχάριστον· οὕτως ὁ Ῥωμαῖος νομοθέτης, εἰ δή τι 20 προσῆν ἄτοπον τῷ σώματι καὶ δυσχερές, ἔκρυψεν; ἢ διαβολὴ τίς ἐστιν ἀφροδισίων παρανόμων τὸ γιγνόμενον, ὡς καὶ τοῖς νομίμοις ¹ αἰσχύνης τινὸς προσούσης;

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The Roman Questions Perseus (Plutarch. Moralia, Vol. IV. Babbitt, Frank Cole, translator. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press; London: William Heinemann Ltd., 1936 (printing).) — 65 focus

[65] Why does the husband approach his bride for the first time, not with a light, but in darkness?

Is it because he has a feeling of modest respect, since he regards her as not his own before his union with her? Or is he accustoming himself to approach even his own wife with modesty?

Or, as Solon¹ has given directions that the bride shall nibble a quince before entering the bridal chamber, in order that the first greeting may not be disagreeable nor unpleasant, even so did the Roman legislator, if there was anything abnormal or disagreeable connected with the body, keep it concealed?

Or is this that is done a manner of casting infamy upon unlawful amours, since even lawful love has a certain opprobrium connected with it?

Plutarch Quaestiones Romanae 65

ed. William W. Goodwin

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